Parenting

For parents of children and teenagers: sleep, screens, money, responsibility, setbacks and the conversations that keep teenagers talking. Practical, calm, and honest about what a parent can and can't control.

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Helping Your Teen Handle Failure: Bad Grades, Rejection, and Getting Cut

Helping Your Teen Handle Failure: Bad Grades, Rejection, and Getting Cut

The list went up and their name wasn't on it. You find out by text, or by the sound of the front door, or by a kid who walks past…

How to Teach Kids Responsibility Without Nagging

How to Teach Kids Responsibility Without Nagging

You've asked four times. The dishwasher is still full. You ask a fifth time, in the voice, and it gets done — badly, resentfully, with a lot of banging. And…

What to Do When Your Child Says "I'm Not Good at Anything"

What to Do When Your Child Says "I'm Not Good at Anything"

It usually comes out sideways. Not as a big announcement — as a flat little sentence dropped while they're doing something else. "I'm just not good at anything." And your…

Screen Time Rules That Actually Work (Without the Nightly Fight)

Screen Time Rules That Actually Work (Without the Nightly Fight)

Every night, the same fight. You say five more minutes. They say they're in the middle of something. You say you've been saying that for an hour. Voices go up.…

How to Talk to Your Teen So They Actually Talk Back

How to Talk to Your Teen So They Actually Talk Back

"How was school?" "Fine." "What'd you do?" "Nothing." And the door closes, and you stand in the hallway wondering when exactly the kid who used to narrate every detail of…

Why Teenagers Can't Sleep at 10pm, and What Parents Can Actually Do

Why Teenagers Can't Sleep at 10pm, and What Parents Can Actually Do

It's 10:30pm. You've said "lights out" twice. The light under the door is still on, and if you go in there'll be a row that costs both of you another…

How to Talk to Kids About Money Early and Often

How to Talk to Kids About Money Early and Often

A child’s question about a price, a payment card or something they want can be a starting point for a money conversation. You do not need to explain the whole…

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